Last week, something clicked for me in a way it never quite had before.

I was sitting in class (Yes, coaches need coaches too!) and I noticed I was feeling… off. Not just tired or distracted, but low. Heavy. 

My thoughts were drifting toward doom and gloom, self-judgment, and impossibility. 

And in that moment, I realized something that stopped me in my tracks:

A part of me didn’t fully believe that more was available to me.
Not just that day—but in general.

It was subtle but powerful. I was going through the motions of speaking affirmations, doing the practices, being “in the work”… but something was missing.

And I finally saw it. Deep down, I was still holding onto an old, limiting belief: “Maybe what I really want just isn’t meant for me.”

And wow—what a disempowering place to think from.

Thankfully, something else from class stayed with me: a reminder that our thoughts carry a frequency. 

Bob Proctor said something I’ve probably heard dozens of times—but this time, it landed: You don’t have to try to feel differently. You just have to choose a new thought.

Let that sink in.

You don’t have to generate a new frequency. You are the frequency when you choose the thought.

I’d been trying to “get my energy right” or “feel more positive,” but the truth is, I didn’t need to wait for the right feeling to arrive. I just needed to decide. To think differently.

That’s when I remembered something my mentor said: “Go where the sparkle is.”

So I started doing exactly that.

I began choosing thoughts that sparkled. That reminded me I’m already whole. That my dreams are meant for me. 

That joy, balance, abundance—they’re not out of reach. They’re within me. They’re within all of us, as soon as we stop identifying with the voice of the past.

And here’s the thing I really want to share with you:

When you feel like everything is too hard…
When the affirmations feel flat…
When you start wondering if it’s just not meant for you…
 

That’s not failure. That’s a sign.

It means you’re right on the edge of a breakthrough. And the old thoughts are clawing to keep you in the old pattern.

But you’re not that version of yourself anymore. You’ve grown. You’re ready. So take the leap.
 

Don’t wait for the feeling to change. Just decide: There’s more for me.
 

And let that thought lead the way.